Martin, Joseph & Vinay at NLP Meets the Secret in London

What a great night we had yesterday in London with one of our inspirations Joseph McClendon III.

Joseph has been in the personal development business for over 20 years and has been working with Tony Robbins for much of that. He is a great speaker, presenter and coach and if you haven’t seen him speak you really should check him out!

At the seminar last night, Joseph was talking about creating a successful life and he focused very much on one of our key principles and teachings which is all about understanding with absolute clarity what it is that you really want.

When he asked the audience of 700 people how many knew exactly what they wanted, only about 20 arms went up. Isn’t that amazing?

You see, knowing what you really want with specificity and clarity is the first step to living the life you want. We talk about the difference between destination and direction in the FREE e-book on our website (you can sign up for it by completing the box on the left!) and how just having direction is not enough for true fulfilment and success, you need to know the exact co-ordinates. When you focus on what you want, guess what? You have a greater chance of getting it!

The crazy thing is that most people spend most of their time focusing on what they don’t want. They don’t want debt, they don’t want to be over weight, they don’t want another failed relationship.

So do yourself some good. Get some pen and paper and start to write down ALL of the things you WANT.  Don’t just settle for what you think you can have but what is it that you REALLY want, exactly want in your life!

If it’s money, how much? A new car, which one? A house? What will it look like? A better body, what will you look like?

Be specific create your self a vivid picture in your mind’s eye and the let the journey begin!